Why do I suffer?
anxiety, depression, physical pain!
Why am ‘i’ here?!
Why does any of this (or that) exist?
We avoid seeking an answer … Why?
Initiate & Integrate
to understand WHY
A Model of Remembering yOUR Natural Origin
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Chapter 4 of The Other Side
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Return to fully Trusting yOUR inherent Connection
My Lifetime Mission – Helping Life to Flow in the Middle
David is a proud Indigenous Leader who survived Genocide
through a Cipher of Remembering, remaining withIN
the System of Oppression to heal its artificial Suffering,
the ultimate display of Sincere support (aka Love & Leadership)
Humanity brought UnNatural Tension
Native Peoples Loving Assist in the Return to Honoring Life’s Inherent Connection and Support
Relieve Emotional Pain
Understanding your current XY Trajectory & your Conditioning Origin Gap, you can Adapt with least effort. People have very different COGs – the origin of all Contrast and Conflict.
Lead Sincerely
Aligning with your Essence, you effortlessly energize Others to share reality, and together our inspiration brings alignment in common causes.
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David will orient you to the XY Model, its ancient origin, and offer hint of Life benefits. Begin to understand whether you are currently in a Conditioning, Motivating or Preparing [to Conflict or Resign] Personality trajectory and what might be pulling you away from your Essence. Or perhaps you’re actively Conflicting “with Others”. Knowing your Conditioning Origin Gap (COG) and ascertaining the COG of Others ACTing upon you, will allow you to Flow and Adapt freely. “Enjoy the Contrast Life creates, rather than fighting it”.
Helping You Relax into Life
Relieving Anxiety & Depression
Own your Storyline. The only “legacy to leave behind”,
is to live by example, to live Naturally, to live well.
Awareness of how we block our Self, complicating our existing,
this is the starting point for empowering self-healing.
Common Outcomes & Benefits
Stop Procrastinating in the pursuit of Lifelong desires
Make tough decisions with no apprehension & true Compassion
Independently resolve Physical and Emotional pain
End Habits you Dislike
Know and Honor the Origin of Habits YOU create
Show loved ones how to Live truly FREE
Goal Setting
Set goals that align with, leverage and rejuvenate your Essence, and not what’s expected from your Personality.
Relationship Coaching
Knowing your XY Trajectory and theirs, you feel safe Including Other and Adapting “appropriately” based on Shared desire and acknowledged gaps.
Stress Management
Resolve unnecessary conflict of Thought & Action which does NOT match your Essence, by quieting the Personality.
Career Advice
Seek organizations and causes that nurture your Essence. Orgs continue to hire for “personality” at great detriment to them and you.
The “Problem” & Opportunity
As we age, we are taught and Conditioned to overly Focus our Attention, much like a Radar, causing us to become ignore-ant of Life’s intricate Connection as ONE. Rather than broadening our observation, preserving and nurturing our childhood curiosity for every Thing in Events, we instead obsess over our Trouble-shooting Radar, anchoring our inattention in a very narrow field of Perception. We focus only on what might hurt our Personal-Reality … aka Personality / Ego.
The inspiring realization is that most often our Personality is inconsistent with our Essence. Our Guardians who shaped [conditioned] our disconnected reality as we aged, were operating out of the same ignorant, self-preserving ACTion. Life keeps on playing That [dysfunction creating contrast] forward.
But, don’t fret, because all such ACTivity is the basis for sparking Contrast in the form of Contradictions between the way we Think and Act versus what Others have devolved to expect from us.
yOur inconsistent behavior is essential to helping Other “exist and know”.
Rather ironic though, that we rarely observe our own Contrast-creating ability? Thus to become a seemingly separate, at-risk self, requires OtherING – others applying force upon us, whether in the form of Nurturing (support consistent with our own Essence) or Naturing (pressure that reinforces Personality expectations – OR – threatens to injure that Ego and cause a resignation back into one’s Essence).
Note: 2/ 3rds of the Experiences in Life are now encouraging a return to our Essence, both as an individual Persona, and collectively as a Society. Globally over the last 5,000 years (via European origins) and last 500 yrs impact upon “the Americas” were focused [via Patriarchy rule] on creating a [false] sense of Separation via Fear and aggravated Suffering.
What is our unifying Origin? Ask WHY do you … WHY does any of This [or That] exist in the first place.
What is your essential recurring “life Pattern”?
Try not to utter “MY purpose” as that remains trapped within the false duality of living life merely as an “at-risk” one-time-around Personality.
Is this for me?
Where do we begin?
Do you desire more Sense of Community and Connection in Life? Are you withdrawing from the Rules of the “Game in Progress” and feeling depressed that seemingly things won’t change?
Or are you full of anxiety, caught up in the hyper activity of Life and struggling to maintain Life’s pace of competition?
There is another Way … and incredibly easy way to Experience all of Life’s awareness-creating contrast.
Whether withdrawing from Life, or burning yourself out trying to keep pace “with the Jones”, you’re likely also neglecting your Physical Health. There is a vicious cycle where Mind trumps Body, causing severe physical Pain that perpetuates and exaggerates Mental and Emotional Pain.
David’s XY Model, when paired with his Holistic solutions from FitnessCompassion, will empower you to resolve and avoid this vicious cycle, for the rest of your lifetime.
Before we start on the highly Effective solution, let’s quickly reinforce that this is NOT counseling. [Read Disclaimer]
David’s goal is to SIMPLIFY your life. There is NO need to regress through the pain of the past. The past is GONE – or at least it should be. Let US Learn and Move Forward with OUR life?
David will show you the ONE thing you can actually own in life … the very next Present Moment. If you can learn how to ACCEPT each present moment, you have found the formula for TOTAL happiness IN Life.
Happiness is the ongoing Shared Acceptance and resulting Feeling of Peace “realized” by living with and through Other and welcoming Other to live through your Storyline.
What does a typical 1st conversation cover?
David will briefly seek to understand some of your current life Challenges or more intense Pain, as a context for helping you “let go” of the beliefs -which reinforce unhealthy relationships which create impediments- that are holding you back. We may use this as a possible baseline for measuring your new BLISSED out Life.
Generally, we will focus on the hidden dimensions of life and how our perception of Life either empowers or disables us. David will show you a secret dimension of Life that you KNEW as a child, but which society and the “aging process” has conditioned you to intentionally forget.
Wow, what a bizarre and BOLD statement!? Yep! Do YOU dare to retrace your steps to a period of time where your own Innocence KNEW the secret Meaning of Life?
How many conversations are typically needed?
Some people who have been curious and seeking a deeper meaning in/from Life can grasp THE shared reality almost immediately. David helps these people apply their tender new Knowing to present life scenarios.
Other people require much more time, exploring Life through trial and error, leveraging help from David.
Quite honestly, people who decide to contact David are READY for meaningful, significant change.
People who are not yet ready to believe something better exists (or that they deserve it), might go their entire Life experiencing the Extremes of personal suffering.
This is the only remaining source of pain for David, who is on a mission to reach and CONNECT as many hearts as possible, before his own time ends.
What is the most common goal of these chats?
The ultimate goal is to offer the individual some tools and techniques to help them BEcome and Remain Totally PRESENT in a Shared Physical Reality with Life.
Presence will bring each person DIRECT Heart-Felt experiences which are affirmed by others. What we FEEL in Life is real. Only “thinking about” Life is pure imagination and the source of our misery.
Each person will ascend beyond all “Belief” that was “handed to them”, into a personalized “absolute KNOWING” of the meaning of Life.
David’s mission is to the help people SEE the secret mission of Life, and empower them to participate intentionally in Life’s design as it “plays out” daily.
The goal is complete empowerment of the individual through total alignment of Attention, Connection, and Compassion, first with their self and then ALL others in Life.
What might this cost?
If you could replace years of fear, pain, regret and inaction, with daily spine-tingling Bliss and loving connection with literally everyone you come into contact with, what would that be “worth” to you?
David would prefer to request Donations for such a Life-Essential service, but as of Spring 2017 he must request a reasonable Fee to ensure his finite time is invested with people who are sincere about aligning with a Life-Reality that supports them fully.
Consider a free orientation conversation with David first, before thinking about Cost. Focus first on the Life-Changing benefits. You’ll find the Benefit to far outweigh the cost of starting up a relationship with David.
After chatting with David, he can give you a reasonable range of Time you may need to invest and the best approach to setting you free of pain.
Disclaimer For Services related to Mental well-being
The techniques ‘offered’ by Harmony Consulting, intend to help a person rediscover their inherent Presence and remain Present in witnessing Life’s intricate connections. These tactics come from a realm known to us from a time of Native Society, before “modern society” made things Conceptually Complicated, most often for the sake of Commerce and the now-professional’s self-survival by creating artificial demand through categorization of a natural state of living and labeling it as “a problem”. Read Services Disclaimer
David’s Book which complements the XY Modes of Attention model
The Other Side
Available Q4 2022 on Amazon
Part 1 read by David available below
About the Model
The model originates from a Cipher crossing several generations of a Native American lineage, known by European Settlers as the Cherokee (the Tsalagi) of the Appalachian Mountains in North America.
Deciphered by David Harmony, beginning at age 5 in 1976 and culminating in 2015, the model at 1st glance seems profoundly simple, yet not very obvious in Western culture. What makes this way of Experiencing Life so novel, untried or difficult to realize?
To truly understand the profound wisdom nestled within the Model of Remembering, a lifelong seeker must transcend self-apart, by going into one’s inner galaxy, and then fully returning to transcend Society, to fully understand the human position “in the Middle”.
Too many models Label and Judge what IS. Too many people strive to just escape this unshared reality.
With XY Mode Awareness, you’ll gracefully exit the insane hyper activity of the unshared reality, AND return to support ALL of Life, as it IS, without judgement.
a system of Remembering yOUR Intentional forGetting
Refernces to:
- “She” meaning “the [wounded, repressed] Feminine energy” in both women and men.
- “Forest” meaning “the Modern unCivilized Society, amidst the unNatural chaos of Urban and now Virtualized reality of disConnection from Environment and each Other.
Rebalancing via Shared Perception
Thriving instead of just Surviving
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Book Coming Soon ...
David is working on a companion book for this site and Model, to make the content relatable through Storylines likely familiar to all.
Tools to "take along"
David offers you tools and Reminders to help you remain Present during Life’s intense moments with Other, empowering each Self to Adapt, Learn from and Transform the moment, together.
Online self-paced Learning
David’s online University, offers you Micro learning in a Mobile environment (phone, tablet, etc) so you can reinforce key aspects of the Model which intend to unlock something you KNEW as an innocent, unconditioned child.
Find Your Balance. Flow in the Middle of Life’s ACTion.
Welcoming a brief Assist
David will prove to be one of the most Present and Helpful hearts you’ve crossed paths with. His life’s mission is to reduce the degree of contrast warranted, to Exist and Know [that you,we ever did exist].
Begin with a FREE orientation call, which paired with his Book and free public material on this site, may be ALL you need, to Remember yOUR origin, realizing total freedom in Life.
If you feel that you need a deeper assist, David is honored and humbled to meet you. He helps people to directly witness their Connection to all of Life and to Flow with Life’s Action, which inherently restores one’s Authority and ability to Respond naturally in a Way that restores Peace within and coOperative Action surrounding that persona.